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Making plans for what happens after you die can make sure your loved ones understand your wishes and that they won’t need to make these decisions for you.
When approaching the end of life, it’s natural to think about what you want to happen after you die and you may want to discuss the subject with your loved ones. It can be helpful to have your wishes written into your Advance Care Plan or your Will.
Writing a Will is an important step in making sure that the people and causes you care about are provided for after you die. It also prevents your loved ones having to decide how to divide your assets among themselves.
Your Will is also a chance to make sure your loved ones understand what kind of funeral you want and whether you want to donate your brain, tissue or other organs.
Some people want to decide how their funeral will be, but it's perfectly natural to not want to think about this. However, if you don’t, your loved ones will need to plan the funeral after you die.
If you do want to plan your funeral, here are some things you may want to think about:
There are resources available to help you think about what you want from your funeral and record your wishes so your loved ones are aware of them.
Speaking with a funeral director can also help you plan your funeral. They can often do more to help you achieve your ideas than many people realise - even if you think your ideas are a bit unconventional.
Unfortunately, funerals are expensive. You may have already put plans in place to pay for your funeral, or you may be able to do this now by:
If you or your loved ones can’t afford to do this, and they are getting certain benefits, they may be able to reduce the cost by applying for a Funeral Expenses Payment from the government.
There may also be further financial support available after you or a loved dies.
Brain donation isn't something that many people think about or know about, and some find it hard to consider. But others see it as a way to make a difference for those in the future, and loved ones can find this a comforting thought.
Giving researchers access to brain tissue helps them develop new and better treatments, find a cure faster and prevent other families being affected in the same way.
Of course, brain donation isn't for everyone, but if it's something you think you’d like to do, it needs to be planned in advance. This is because processes have to be put in place so that the donation can take place as soon as possible after death (usually within 72 hours).
If you want to donate other organs or tissues as well as your brain, you may be able to do so, but timings of when organs need to be taken may make this difficult. The donation of other organs is a separate donation system, but talk to the individual brain bank you intend to use and also your healthcare team.
It’s recommended that in all cases of donation, you let your loved ones know of your wishes.
Some people worry that their religious beliefs may not allow organ donation. However, most religions and belief systems in the UK do support the principles of organ donation and accept that it's an individual choice. If you’re unsure, or have any questions, speak to an adviser from your faith.
Deciding what happens to your social media accounts after you die (also known as managing your digital legacy) is an important thing to consider in today's increasingly digital world.
For some of your loved ones it may be difficult to see messages on your social media, especially from people who aren't aware of your terminal diagnosis. You could delete your accounts now, but many people don’t want to do this.
Deleting somebody's social media or email account after they die can be a time-consuming and distressing process. Often family members will need to provide proof you’ve died and that they’re an immediate family member.
It can prevent a lot of difficulty if measures are put in place beforehand. Perhaps write down the various passwords and give them to a trusted friend or family member who can use these later. Or set up password managers on your computer and leave details in your Will.
Some platforms allow you to either request that your account is permanently deleted after you die or set up a legacy contact to manage your account.
A legacy contact can pin a tribute post on their timeline and respond to new friend requests, but they can’t post as the person or see their messages. Depending on the settings, other friends can share memories of you.
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